A few days ago, a person came to an event I was hosting uninvited and as a last minute add on. Even though space was at capacity at my event, I welcomed this person because we are friendly. The event went well and afterward I greeted well-wishers and bid them adieu. When the add-on emerged, her vibe was chilly. After mumbling some general niceties she threw in some general criticisms too. While she served up her haterade my mental tickertape read “who the fuck asked you?”
Unless a person specifically asks for your opinion, don’t give one. If someone does ask for your opinion, be honest, but compassionate. As for critiques, keep ‘em brief, keep it kind, and keep a friend.
As someone who serves up unsolicited opinions as a hobby on this site, some of you may find my position a little contradictory (dare I say hypocritical?), but remember attendance here is 100% voluntary. And if I haven’t told you lately, I’m so grateful for you. xoxo DC
Surely you’ve seen this? For those of you who missed it, Dean posted this photo on twitter and then quickly removed it. I’m sure Tori was mortified with that nursing nipple pepperoni situation. Whatever it takes to drum up excitement for that new season of Tori & Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood though, right? Also, is that a whitehead on Liam’s chin? Why do I find that more offensive than the mom titties? New episodes and DC commentary (for you Michael York) the 29th and thereafter.
There is a scene in Unzipped where one of Mizrahi’s minions tentatively approaches him with the latest issue of WWD featuring Gaultier’s collection based on a similar Nanook of the North theme. Isaac reacts to the catastrophe by venting his frustration on the meek messenger. “Don’t show these things to me I’ve not been looking at it. Just don’t show it to me. You showed it to me. It’s like you took some evil pleasure in it.”
On the flipside, don’t talk shit unless you are prepared to say it to the person’s face because TRUST no one will listen to the advice above. At the first opportunity, the tattler will tattle with delight. 
After a month of faithful use, my affection for the Clarisonic Mia has only grown. It is worth a spot on your Kwanzaa/Chanukah/X-mas list this year, especially if you have been struggling with skin flare-ups this fall.
Different brands offer different brushes. I can’t speak to the efficacy of any other model than the Mia. As far as it is concerned, the device feels substantial and well built. The charging mechanism is space conscious and travel friendly. As for Clarisonic’s claim that regular use of the Mia improves the absorption of skin care products? Without any empirical proof, I concur. 
What the fuck is up with Sons of Anarchy? Last season’s detour to Ireland tried our patience, but the theme this season seems to be beat a bitch down. 
In the single worst narrative decision in television history, Jax mercilessly bloodied Ima. With this beating, Sutter killed lady-boners everywhere. Jax has totally lost his appeal now. If you think the female constituency doesn’t matter, ask who controls the remote in your house. 
Tara’s crippled with a van door smashed hand courtesy of Clay’s ordered hit gone wrong. Even the usually powerful Gemma survived a flinch-inducing face fisting from her husband. Hate women much Sutter? The writers may rationalize the misogyny to seal Clay’s identity as a wife-beating villain unworthy of survival, but who will pull the trigger? Usually, in these scenarios, the violence against women is used as a justification for vengeance by another man. You know, some tired white-knight-damsel-in-distress cliché. 
Has Sutter managed to fully alienate his female audience, or is there still time to repair the damage in the final episodes of the season?
The Ten of Pentacles depicts an affluent family hosting a stately elderly gentleman. A relative perhaps? Family matters move to the forefront with this card. Ten of Pentacles triggers gains in wealth. Use the extra financial means to create a permanent and stable nest. This year has brought much upheaval and change. Now is the time to find a place to call your own. The Ten of Pentacles is a particularly auspicious card for new businesses. When reversed, you might get robbed.
In this week’s quest for clearer skin, I bring you iS Clinical Active Serum, a product that – GASP and clutch your anus – actually delivers results. 
Made of extracts of sugar cane (glycolic), bilberry (lactic), willow bark (salicylic) , and mushroom (kojic) with a kick of menthol for tingle, not sure exactly what it is about this serum, but I saw dramatic improvements in skin texture after a few uses. It reduces inflammation, fades healing spots, and brightens overall. The cooling effect makes me a little nostalgic for Sea Breeze. 
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