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For research and curiosity’s sake, I watched the first two episodes of Tori Spelling’s new scripted series Mystery Girls. While one might think a Jennie Garth/Tori Spelling nostalgia combo platter would be comforting, in actuality it’s just depressing (not to mention poorly written). I’m starting to think Tori Spelling lives her whole life as though it was episodic television. Skip Mystery Girls in favor of Cabin Fever – Tori and Dean’s Canadian lake cabin renovation reality show filmed last year before all the cheating drama went public. Some of the renovation ideas are cute and clever. The kids show up, and I was so happy to see precious Patsy. Bear witness to the last days of Tori & Dean. Trouble finding Cabin Fever? That’s because the reality-renovation show’s marooned on Great American Country (yeah, apparently that’s a network). I’ve seen Obvious Child. Twice. I don’t want to tell you what to think about it, but I recommend you support this movie in the theater. We need more projects like this one funded and available in wide release. Gaby Hoffman is everything. I need her to doula my baby. Jenny Slate, you were on the brink of alienating us with your conspicuous, showy, enduring display of impossibly toned abs. I finally got around to watching Orange is the New Black. (Thanks Lisa&Paul.) Well worth your time, but I warn you binge watching that show locked me into such an incarcerated headspace. I’m late on the bandwagon, so I won’t bother repeating how well-written, diverse, and interesting OITNB is… just get around to it if you haven’t already.
As you know, I’m not a parent. I don’t even have a pet. My cayenne pepper plant is the closest thing to a being that depends on me, and it could probably survive on my porch for some time without intervention. Even though I’m not a parent, I was a teenager. And to quote Wendy Williams, I was a teenager who was “up to thangs.” Drugs. Fighting. Musicians. Protests. Shows. Parties. Mischief. Jail. Because of these experiences, I know when others are up to thangs.I have a friend. Well-educated and hard-working, she’s done exceptionally well for herself. With no children of her own, she treats her family generously. Years back, she promised her niece that if she met certain stipulations, my friend would take her to Europe for high school graduation. Recently, the niece graduated. True to her word, my friend planned a lovely trip overseas for the two of them.Two days after gradation and less than a week before their planned departure date, niece split her car between two trees driving drunk. Thankfully, niece walked away unscathed as did her two passengers. The collision destroyed the car. One passenger fled on foot. One stayed behind. Niece called her parents. Her parents awoke to the middle of the night call – a nightmare. The concerned couple leapt from slumber to fetch a nearly-passed-out-drunk niece from a nearby location.The family returned to the scene of the wreck. When the tow truck was called to retrieve the crunched car, the tow truck driver informed the parents that he was obligated to notify the police because the property damage exceeded $1000. While her parents are cleaning up her mess, niece is passed out drunk in the back seat of their car.Cops show up. Dad says he’s the one that was driving. Dad receives citation for reckless driving. As a result, teenage drunk driving niece endures zero consequences for her extraordinarily reckless actions. The next day, niece plays innocent and convinces naive parents that this is the first time she has ever driven drunk. She appears contrite. They allow her to go to Europe anyway.I think this response is total bullshit. Not on my friend’s part. She’s an innocent bystander in this situation just following through on her promise, and I admire her for that. I’m looking at the parents in judgement. Parents never want to believe the worst or the truth regarding their child (too often one in the same). “The other kid was the ringleader… My kid was just in the wrong place at the wrong time.” I can’t with the excuses. Your kid is a fucker. I know this because I was a fucker. I was up to thangs, and I relentlessly and pathologically lied to cover my ass. Lying is what teenagers do. Don’t take it personally. Deception is a developmental stage. Just don’t be gullible enough to believe the little liars – or worse reward them for their dishonorable behavior with a European vacation.
I love using the internet to reconnect with random and obscure pieces of nostalgia from my childhood. When I was a kid, I loved a dance movie (who didn’t?). Girls Just Want to Have Fun. Flashdance. Dirty Dancing. Fast Forward. Haven’t heard of that last one? Fast Forward tells the tale of 8 struggling performers from Sandusky, Ohio who set off to NYC with a hope and a dream to win a record label’s annual talent showcase. I loved this corny mess and watched it on replay. It was directed by Sidney Poitier and Quincy Jones served as the executive music producer, but don’t let those names fool you into thinking this is a quality film. Everything about Fast Forward is totally silly. It also has everything I like in one movie: 1) A delightful apartment makeover montage; 2) A dance-off; 3) Women fighting off rapists by kicking them in the balls; and 5) Dance pant moose knuckles. Furthermore, upon rewatching, I’m pretty sure this floppy disco-tittied movie is the origin of my own personal anti-bra policy.
Happy Birthday Taurus! After a month of oppositional and tense energy, you are ready for a change both outwardly and inwardly. Whether it’s a freshening of your personal appearance or a sprucing of your home, invest in a few significant upgrades in May. Mother’s Day could be a real bitch this year. Particularly reactive on the 11th, it’s easy to slip back into childish patterns. Remember you are grown. Give a nice gift and a pleasant (albeit forced) smile. Keep your mouth shut or stuff it with pancakes. Before making any big promises socially or professionally to team up and dream up, view the entire situation through a critical side-eye. Get nakedly honest regarding the commitment the collaboration entails. Don’t allow leisure activities originally intended for fun to become burdensome and stressful. Scale back birthday plans to your nearest and dearest. Not everybody and their cousin merits an invite.
The days before your birthday are for quiet retreat, Gemini. The spotlight will soon be yours, take care of any messiness or undone chores nagging your subconscious. Gemini’s spring cleaning includes weeding your friendship flowerbed of unhealthy additions. The energy on Mother’s Day could present a number of challenges. Expect tense family dynamics if you plan to spend the day among loved ones. Play with the kiddos as an effective strategy for staying out of the fray. Concerning your health, when is the last time you had a check-up or any preventive care? Take care of yourself.
Embrace light-hearted fun in May, Cancer. Twirl around parties. Gossip and flirt. Enjoy yourself by keeping conversations easy breezy. Celebrating Mom may feel like a real chore this year, or you may not feel like you are getting credit where credit is due from your own ungrateful offspring and spouse. Tense energy in the crabshell foreshadows a change in the domestic sphere. Towards the end of the month, quiet the noise, slow down, and meet unmet obligations in preparation for your birthday.
Tap into your blonde ambition Leo, May is the month to make shit happen in your personal industry sector. Light a match under your ass at work and go for it. If you can’t see yourself moving onward and upward at your current grind, then put your energy into finding a more rewarding career. Either way, your efforts will be rewarded. May showers manifest as tears on Mother’s Day this year. The tense energy makes for uncomfortable family gatherings. If you know you can’t control your reactionary temper in the familial context, then limit your dealings to the minimum you can politely manage.
Virgo embraces adventure in May. The daring could take many forms from the obvious – last minute travel – to the less obvious – a meditative journey inward. Whatever trip you take, there’s a lesson in it for you. Mother’s Day might be a mutherfucker for reasons beyond your control. What is within your control is your reaction to unprovoked attacks. Take a few deep breaths, imbibe a cocktail, and focus on what you love about your family. With regard to your central relationship, you gotta decide if you are all in or all out because nobody can keep track of your pendulum swinging heart.
Libra craves intimacy and meaningful connection in May. Spend time with your sweetie cuddled up at home. The oppositional energy of the Grand Cross carries into May. Libra certainly felt the harsh angles of this unusual stellar arrangement. Why not take a self-imposed recovery period? It’s a nice way of sparing us your moody discontentment. Usually the family diplomat, this Mother’s Day your peace-making talents take temporary leave. Mid-month, enjoy a burst of full moon Scorpio energy that stimulates career success.
Scorpio loves powerful partnership, and the desire to collaborate works up a hunger to define your latest relationship. Total devotion forms the foundation of your dream union. Most beings are not capable of that level of intensity or the totality of sacrifice required for mating with you. Don’t belabor unsatisfying affiliations. Honor your Ma on Mother’s Day whether near, far, or departed. Extra-raw on the 11th, Scorpio’s got tail up, stinger poised. Retract your weaponry Scorpio, today isn’t the day for offensive maneuvering. We’re all suffering under the same strain, so send up a puff of compassion instead of attacking the weak and vulnerable.
Sagittarius is ready for some late spring cleaning in May. First, file your paperwork and thin the stacks of clutter. Next, pull out some pots and plant yourself a little windowsill garden. The plants will nourish you in unforeseen ways in the coming months. They will also clean the air and pump your home full of fresh oxygen. Ferocious family dynamics have the potential to ruin Mother’s Day. Unable to hold your tongue under this irrational influence, Sags could be major contributors to the chaos. Even though at times it feels as though you’ve outgrown your friends, your own self-limiting beliefs are the source of most of your misdirected judgment and criticism.
Capricorn gets especially expressive in May after feeling downright repressed in April. For the most part, this chatty streak works to your benefit. Mother’s Day is the major exception. Thoughtless comments and misconstrued humor could spark intense overreactions. Bring a nice gift and stuff your face with food. Lay in the cut and don’t be a dick. It isn’t up to you to fix your family. Instead of wasting energy on unsolicited advice for your clan, apply that care-taking energy to yourself. Spend the last week of May organizing your life. Tidy your home. Eat better. Refresh the wardrobe.
After an incredibly intense April, Aquarius requires a respite! All the drama, stress, and conflict depleted your resources and patience. Of all the signs, you are poised to deliver the best Mother’s Day as either the recipient or giver. However you chose to celebrate motherhood, keep it low key and pampering. Now is not the time to plan the world’s most elaborate brunch. Even French toast can’t compete with selfish tantrum throwers – who are bound to make an appearance on the 11th. Mid-month, an energetic boost in your career helps you decide if you should stay or go.
Your noggin is stormy with ideas in May, Pisces. The notions come quickly and without much elaboration, so keep a notebook handy to jot down thoughts as they strike lightening fast. A cloud hovers over Mother’s Day. Pisces acts out with unpredictable moodiness. If you are struggling to maintain your composure in your toxic familial soup, think of them as strangers and just be polite. You wouldn’t overtly roll your eyes at a stranger across the lunch table, so don’t do it to your sister at family gatherings. Towards the end of the month, Pisces feels especially emotionally vulnerable. Spend this time alone or with a few trusted pals – no needy whiners!
With May comes a healthy dose of reality, Aries. Start with an assessment of your finances. Look at your accounts and compare the credit to debit columns. If you’re running a deficit, you must reverse the flow from outgoing to incoming. In order to do so, you will have to sacrifice some of your material desires. Put quality thought and effort into honoring your mother this Mother’s Day. Defy your selfish reputation by seizing this wonderful opportunity to display your thoughtfulness and love. Aries’ sexual relationship gets a surge of intensity from the scorpion mid-month. Everything you’ve been holding back will come spilling out in a gush of brutal honesty.
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He has to google words I use in text messages. You don’t know what auspicious means?
Auspicious: showing or suggesting that future success is likely.
He spends three dates talking exclusively about himself and then says “I can’t wait to learn everything about you.”
I hate his shoes.He cares more about being perceived as cool than he does about my feelings.
My Kelly LeBrock and James Spader references sailed over his thinning hair.
Hate the bangs, but I enjoy the way this inky gown drapes your body Karen O. A capelet crusader, Kate Hudson in Versace Atelier. Kevin Spacey in blueberry Burberry. Hathaway defensively donned a Gucci breastplate.
Wrinkled, boring, and confusing, someone explain Sandy B in this pageanty Alexander McQueen?
If Orange Julius raped a praying mantis this Kelly Ripa moment would be the unholy outcome.
Speaking of praying mantis, Portia needs to lay off the botox for real.
This shitty suit doesn’t even fit. Who let Lutz in? Did he sneak in with a tray of hors d’oeuvres?
I watched Say Anything again recently. True, I enjoy the intermittent Jeremy Piven and insanely hot Diane Court + Lloyd Dobler kissing, but that’s not why Say Anything warrants a rewatch. Consider this nugget of epiphanic truth: we’re all holding out for Lloyd Dobler, until most of us settle for a lesser version of Rob Gordon.
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