I know in the Tinder age I should be happy for any invitation that doesn’t come via the latest app, but I don’t appreciate last minute date invites. Such late requests assume I have nothing better to do. Last night at 5:30, I got a dinner invitation for the same night. It didn’t occur to you to ask me to dinner before 5:30 pm? I declined. I’m not just sitting around waiting for you to ask me to eat. I have plans. My plans include not feeling like an afterthought. If you want to spend time with me, ask in advance.
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