
A friend is one who knows you and loves you just the same.
Elbert Hubbard

A friend is one who knows you and loves you just the same.
Elbert Hubbard
My dear friend Sam is getting married soon and she recently inquired about how to achieve a natural, dewy, minimalist look for her big day. She cited Kate’s (Moss not Middleton, ya’ll) recent nuptials as inspiration.
Wedding makeup is tricky business. The bride must consider lighting, photography, and longevity. Often what works on camera can look down right freakish in person. Furthermore, who can be bothered with endless touch-ups on such an important occasion?
Most brides aim for subtle enhancement to show their best selves. The approach for each bride must be individually tailored to achieve optimal results, but there are a few hard and fast rules for wedding day makeup that simply should not be ignored.
Despite what you might have learned from last weekend’s Jerseylicious marathon, a smoky eye doesn’t work for everyone. Those with hooded eyelids or smaller eyes should stick to lighter neutral shadows. A smoky eye can easily melt into a raccoon eye without proper preservation. If you insist on breaking out some intense shadow for the big day, have at it, but for the love of Aucoin please no super bright colors. Save the hot pink and purple; this is your wedding day and not a club crawl through the Jersey Shore.
Keep shimmer to a minimum. A little here and there to catch the light is fine – corner of the eyes, brow bone, a smidge on the cheek bones, a dab in the center of the lip or arch of the cupid’s bow (NOT all locations por favor). Shimmer reads prominently in photographs. If you go crazy with the highlighter all over; you’ll appear oily and shiny in your pictures. Soft matte works best on camera.
Dramatic brides may consider a red lip. Proceed with caution. Red lips are extremely high-maintenance. Gotta keep it off the teeth, off the dress, and reapply often for maximum punch. A scarlet smoocher can easily dominate the face and take over a photo. The wrong shade of red causes the rest of the face to recede. The tendency is to overcompensate with too much color elsewhere or look washed out. Consider a subtle red wash on the lips to keep features balanced.
Go easy with the foundation and concealer application. Let your skin and inner light shine through. Remember the aim of these products is to perfect the skin, not mask it. Splurge on high-end foundation and concealer, even if you go budget in other areas. Without a perfected base, the whole look crumbles.
Invest in a primer. A decent primer provides staying power. Primer is the key to 8-12 hours of longevity, so you look as good at the end of the reception as you did walking down the aisle.

Holding down Ohio, gorgeous DC reader KB wrote requesting advice on how to fake a Miami glow in the Midwest:
“I would like to look sun-kissed but don’t want to damage my skin. I got sunburned by accident two weeks ago and my skin looked worse almost immediately. And not just redness, wrinkly. So the issue is twofold; I’m interested in the Demeter Clarc recommendations for sunscreens as well as a way to fake the tan. I’ve never done a tanning lotion or bronzer (more interested in faking through the latter…I feel like there are scary nasty things in those turn-ya-orange lotions). So I don’t know which is better, how to apply, or what yields the best results. Also, if there are products in the mid priced range, I’d be much obliged as well.”
I’ve avoided giving general advice about bronzers. Achieving the perfect bronze usually requires a bit of trial and error. That said, I’m not about to leave you beyond the pale, so here are a few tips and recommendations to get you started down the terracotta brick road.
The first and most important rule of bronzing is that the product MUST be matte. No shimmer. No sparkles. No glitters (ever, anywhere). Add luminosity later; this is not the place.
Next KB, you gotta decide on liquid or powder formula. Both have advantages and disadvantages, therefore it is worthwhile to have one of each in your arsenal for different occasions and purposes.

Let’s start with liquid/cream/gel options. On a really good skin day, this type of bronzer replaces foundation for good glow. This time of year, mix bronzer with foundation for a subtle transition to summer. Many of these products contain sunscreen too.

Luxury: Bobbi Brown All Over Bronzing Gel SPF 15, Soleil Tan de Chanel.
Budget: Organic Wear Liquid Bronzer, Bonne Bell Gel Bronzer.

Powders are more a common choice, but also the source of many a makeup mistake. Finding the right color is super challenging. For the most part, avoid red or orange undertones (unless you are a red-head). Look for a brown base. Go too dark for your skin tone and risk looking muddy. Fair-skinned folks look for light brown sandy shades. Often when a brand offers two shades, the lighter one can look orange and the darker one is too dark. Think café au lait.
Luxury: Nars Bronzer in Laguna, The Balm Bahama Mama Bronzer.
Budget: Rimmel Natural Bronzer, Organic Wear Natural Bronzer.
Once you find the perfect product in the most flattering shade, keep these bronzing commandments in mind.
1) Exfoliate first.
2) Matte finish only. Said it once before, but it bears repeating.
3) Don’t forget the neck! Blend softly all the way down to the collarbone.
4) Consider blush compatibility.
5) Less is more. Forehead, nose bridge, chin, temples, cheekbones, stop there.

Good Morning Muffin. Happy Birthday. Since you check in first thing, here is a special horoscope to start your day off right. Interplay between Mars and Neptune conjure the type of power you need to see things through. No stranger to achievement and the hard work it requires, colleagues and students truly respect your mastery and understanding. Creative expression produces pleasing results. Always thick with friends, expect much jubilation today in your honor. Sop up all the well-wishing and rub it on like cold cream. Today’s the day to glow. As for romantic interests, for you honesty is everything. Navigate accordingly. Today especially, emotions color judgment.
Tired of the Tiger? Ready for the Rabbit?
Rather than boring you with a Western recapitulation of Eastern traditions, check out this adorable bunny matchbox DC reader and crafty pal KB created. KB has an undeniable talent for seeing the beauty and potential in the seemingly ordinary and mundane.
We all know homemade gifts are where it’s at, and the detailed care taken to create this tiny treat is apparent.

Take inspiration, these decorative matchboxes can serve dual purposes: as a place holder and a fun memento your guests can take home and enjoy.
Special thanks to KB for her daily visits and thoughtful creations, and to all DC readers worldwide, may the Year of the Rabbit be your most prosperous and joyful yet! Thank you for your support and inspiration through the Tiger times. 新年快乐

As you know, we usually don’t do baby here at DC, but we are making a very special exception to welcome a new Scorpio into the fold. This little dumpling is Miller Olson. He joined us on the 1st of November. Little muffin Miller shares a birthday with Jenny McCarthy, Aishwarya Rai, and Larry Flynt. Huge hugs to Eden, Simon, and big bro Thatcher. 



Men kick friendship around like a football, but it doesn’t seem to crack. Women treat it like glass and it goes to pieces.
Anne Morrow Lindbergh

In gratitude for your unwavering support of Demeter Clarc, here is a special Birthday Horoscope just for you.
The Crab can make its home wherever it likes, and you have utilized this trait to reinvent yourself. Your nurturing bosom comforts all those around you. It is no surprise you were born under the sign of the boobies. You are the human equivalent of a warm blanket, fresh from the dryer. You experience feelings deeply. Joy and love fill your life, yet you suffer under the weight of crippling sadness. Despite your tendency to get tangled, don’t get it twisted: you are a survivor.